I hope you have a wonderful day.”This text serves as two reminders: You want her to know she’s the first thing on your mind. When you think of cheating in the traditional sense, having sex with another person comes to mind. Webster’s Dictionary defines cheating as the deprivation of “something valuable by the use of deceit or fraud.”Sure, sex is cheating and may be the most hurtful case, but have you ever stopped to think you’re being cheated out of your relationship every day?
And, more importantly, she needs to realize that, regardless of how stressful or busy your days are, she’s the priority. Instead, you’ll log into Instagram or Facebook, nosing into everyone else’s life, and maybe, just maybe, you’ll send that text to your woman on the way to work. People “date,” but what the hell does that even mean anymore? It’s an intimate situation in which the person you love is connecting with another while you are going about your life, loving and caring for said person. We experience a lack of communication, attention, passion, intimacy and even lack of love.
Kerjanya sebagai ‘anak ikan’ kepada beberapa orang wanita diatur dengan teliti agar tidak diketahui di kalangan mereka.
Bukan seorang malah ada kalanya dia ‘disimpan’ dua atau tiga wanita pada masa yang sama.
Tidak ada niat untuk mengambil kesempatan terhadap mereka.
Tetapi memikirkan wang dan kemewahan yang boleh saya dapat, pejamkan mata dan jalani kehidupan seperti biasa,” kata Lokman berterus-terang.
“Mula-mula memanglah sekadar ingin menolong dan menjadi teman berbual.
Writing has become my therapy and an outlet to share my life with the world.
My family is my everything and the inspiration behind all that I do.
Why are we okay with this and all the communication shortcuts that have become so common?
This type of cheating causes much more damage than that of any sexual affair.
I’m picking you up and taking you somewhere special.”Make an effort. The days of holding hands, opening the car door, taking her out “just because,” sending her flowers just to get a smile and leaving her notes on her car should never be gone. Appreciate her, and show her how much she means to you.
But, most importantly, put your phone down, and dial into what’s in front of you.
Why is there always so much to do and never enough time to get it done?