And if you do it all the time, it may be the reason you can’t keep a man (or think you can’t). The way you think about yourself is the way others will think of you.If you put yourself down, focus on your flaws and your past mistakes, that’s how he will see you too.
This is the worst way to start Asking him about how he feels, the awkward “do you like me” question, is a big no-no too, for the same reasons.
This mistake is yet again based on the fact that guys need the chase.
No matter how much you crave to tell him, you have to be patient and give him time to realize how he feels about you, before you say anything to him.
– The more I try to get close to him, the more distant and cold he becomes. His silence will break your heart and all you’ll want to do is run away and hide under a rock.
Plus, what happens if he doesn’t feel the same YET?
He used to text and call me all the time, but suddenly he stopped. It hasn’t changed in the last million years and it never will (even if they won’t admit it! Telling him you like him / in love with him FIRST, eliminates the chase – A big turn off for guys.
What ever you do, avoid talking trash about your ex boyfriends.
In fact, do not talk about your exes at all, unless he specifically asks about them (he probably won’t).
Unfortunately, the answer to the last question is yes. You break down the toughest guy’s walls, make him beg for you to be with him forever, make him bend over backwards to please you – Without playing games. You have to understand and accept that guys need a challenge.